Heart Advice

Dudjom Rinpoche

Do not associate with narrow-minded people, and do not trust new, unproven companions. Befriend honest, intelligent, and prudent individuals; observe propriety and remain courteous. Avoid bad company—those who disregard karma, lie, cheat, and steal. Distance yourself from them, but do so skillfully.
Do not rely on those who flatter you to your face yet speak otherwise behind your back.
As for yourself, remain steadfast amidst the ebb and flow of happiness and suffering. Be friendly and composed with others. Careless, unrestrained chatter places you in their power, while excessive silence may cause them to question your true motives. Strike a balance: do not be an arrogant braggart, yet do not become a doormat.
Do not fuel gossip without first ascertaining the true state of affairs. Few people know how to hold their tongues. Therefore, do not blabber about your desires and intentions—keep them to yourself. And with whomever you speak—be it an enemy, an acquaintance, or a friend—never betray their trust.
Be affable with people; smile and speak pleasant words. Stand firm in your convictions. Respect those of higher station, and do not mock them even when they have fallen on hard times. At the same time, do not grovel or fawn over vulgar people, even when they are puffed up with pride and conceit.
Be prudent: do not promise what you cannot fulfill. Yet, honor the promises you do make; never dismiss them as trivial. Do not succumb to despondency over misfortune or unmet desires; instead, carefully consider what will yield true gain and what will result in loss. If pursued with proper discernment, such worldly conduct brings good fortune and prosperity in this life and, it is said, leads quickly to the divine realms.
However, if you wish to escape samsara entirely, here is some advice to aid you on the path to liberation.
Without contentment, you are poor, no matter how much money you possess. Therefore, resolve that you have enough, and cast aside craving and attachment. Truly rare is the person who recognizes the fleeting, impermanent nature of wealth and can practice generosity to perfection. Even when generosity is shown, it is often tainted by three impurities—rendering it useless, like fine food mixed with poison.
Apart from beings suffering the agonies of hell, there is no one in samsara who does not cherish their life. Among the seven supreme qualities of the higher realms, longevity is a karmic result that mirrors its cause. Therefore, protect the lives of others; focus your efforts on this practice.
Cultivate faith and devotion toward the Three Jewels and your teacher. Strive to practice the ten virtuous deeds and combine a clear mind with profound study. Foster a sense of personal integrity and propriety in your dealings with others. With these seven supreme riches, you will always be happy!
Tagi: #mahajana, ~tibet